Managing separation anxiety in dogs 

If you’ve been spending lots of time at home, your dog’s no doubt enjoyed being with you. The challenge comes when your dog needs to start spending more time home alone. Some dogs take changes in their routine and absences from their owners in their stride. But for others, it can bring about separation anxiety, which is distressing for dogs and their owners.

What is separation anxiety?

Separation anxiety is when dogs find it stressful to be apart from the people they’re most attached to. They can become extremely anxious and their distress at this separation can reveal itself in a wide range of behaviors. See below for some of the signs to look out for.

Why do dogs develop separation anxiety?

You may think your dog is unlikely to develop separation anxiety, or you may be surprised to notice they’ve suddenly started behaving differently. The difficulty is, there’s a range of factors that can cause separation anxiety in dogs and the main cause can be hard to identify.

Some dogs begin to feel anxious if there’s a sudden change in their life such as moving to a new house or family. Or if they suddenly begin to spend a lot less time with their owners than they’re used to. Even the loss of another family pet can bring about separation anxiety.

Other contributing factors are more historical. Some dogs who’ve previously suffered from anxiety, for example, are more susceptible to being affected again. So it’s always worth thinking about how any changes in your life or your dog’s life might affect them and make them feel anxious.

Signs of separation anxiety in dogs

It’s worth paying close attention to your dog’s behavior as some signs of separation anxiety can start before you even leave the house. You could also set up a camera to record your dog’s behavior while you’re away.

Typical signs of separation anxiety in dogs include:

• Following you around your home.
• Trying to leave the house with you when you leave.
• Barking, whimpering or whining when you leave or after you’ve gone.
• Staying close to the door you left through.
• Pacing or unable to rest while you’re away.
• Destructive behaviors, such as chewing or destroying things when they’re alone.
• Reacting to noises when they’re alone that wouldn’t concern them when you’re home.

Other things to look out for, that may seem less connected to separation anxiety but could still indicate your dog is suffering from it, are:

• Loss of appetite.
• House soiling when they're alone, even though they're house trained.
• Panting and drooling.
• Obsessive behaviors such as over-grooming and excessive licking.

Your dog may do some of these things to some extent when you’re at home. But, if they have separation anxiety, these behaviors will become much worse when they’re left alone.

How to help a dog with separation anxiety 

The first step – speak to your veterinarian

If you suspect your dog has separation anxiety, it’s important to tackle it. Not only is it impractical for you to stay at home continually, but it’s also really tough on your dog to suffer in this way.

Also, the signs you’re attributing to separation anxiety may actually be caused by a medical condition. So the first step if you think your dog has separation anxiety is to make an appointment to see your vet.

What to take with you to the veterinarian

Take a list of the kinds of behavior you’ve noticed that make you think your dog has separation anxiety with details of when this behavior tends to happen. It will be also useful for your vet if you can take some video footage of the kinds of behavior your dog’s been showing.

Your veterinarian is likely to ask questions such as:

• How long have you owned your dog?
• Who is usually in your house and when?
• Are the behaviors related to one person leaving or when your dog is totally alone?
• Has your routine changed and, if so, how?
• Have there been other changes such as moving to a different house or apartment?
• Has there been an absence in your home recently?
• Do you have other pets?

The answers to these questions will help your vet determine whether your dog has separation anxiety or if something else is the problem. 

Separation anxiety training for dogs

Prevention is better than cure when it comes to separation anxiety. So let’s look at some of the things you can do now to prepare your dog for when you’re leaving the house more often and for longer periods of time. These approaches may also help if your dog’s already showing signs of separation anxiety.

Create a consistent, predictable routine

When you are home, it’s tempting to enjoy lots of time with your dog. But establishing a routine that resembles your normal, day to day life is more beneficial for your dog. A consistent routine enables your dog to predict what will happen next and goes a long way to reducing their stress levels.

Start spending more time apart

The routine you create should include some time for your dog away from you and anyone else in your household. This could be in areas outside, behind a pet gate in a separate room or by leaving them at home when you go out for a short while. It’s important to make sure your dog has everything they need to feel comfortable while you’re away though.

Leave and arrive quietly

Always keep your hellos and goodbyes low key. When your leaving and homecoming rituals involve minimal fuss, it helps your dog to understand that your absence isn’t anything to worry about. Prolonged goodbyes and hugs at the door may increase their anxiety. While it’s best not to make a big fuss when you first arrive home, do remember to give your dog plenty of attention and affection when you’re together.

Practice at home

While you’re at home more, it’s a good time to practice crate training or teach your dog to go to their bed on command. Also, make sure you reinforce calm behaviors when you’re at home. Next time your dog is relaxing on their bed, for example, praise them for being calm and maybe even take them a tasty treat.

Make sure they stay active

Before your dog has some time alone, make sure they’ve had enough exercise. If they're a little tired then they're more likely to have a nap while you’re away or at least find it easier to relax.

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Ask for help

Plan ahead if you’re approaching a time when you’re going to be out of the house more. You can help to manage the transition for your dog by establishing a network of people who can help. Family, friends, dog walkers and day-care centers could help to smooth the change for your dog. Make sure you start using their support before the change in your routine though, so your dog has a chance to get used to them.

How long should you leave your dog alone?

If your dog’s suffering from separation anxiety, or you’ve been spending a lot of time at home with them, you may need to begin with shorter periods of separation. You may also need to start by introducing time alone when you’re still close by – in another room, for example. Once your dog’s comfortable with being left alone, you can gradually extend the length of time you’re away. 

If your workplace allows employees to bring pets to the office, this can be useful to limit the amount of time your dog spends at home alone. However, it's important to remember that your dog may still need to have time on their own, so when they can't be brought into the office they're fully prepared for the situation.

Tips for leaving your dog home alone

The following suggestions may help when you start spending more time away from your dog.

Use enrichment activities

Try using feeding toys or hiding food around your house while you’re away. This will give your dog something to do, stimulate their brain and enable them to express their natural behaviors. Start slowly and allow your dog to get used to any feeding puzzles while you’re around before giving them one to use when they’re alone.

Leave your scent

When you leave your dog, make sure they have a quiet comfortable place to rest with a special treat or toy. You could also leave a blanket or piece of clothing carrying your scent with them, as this may help to comfort them.

Leave a TV or radio on

If you leave a TV or radio on or play some music while you’re away, this can also help to soothe your dog. It will make the house feel less quiet in your absence.

Check your dog’s diet

Sometimes, nutrition can help dogs adapt to stressful situations and help maintain their emotional balance. Talk to your vet to see if nutrition can help your pet. Royal Canin Canine Comfort Care diets are formulated to help dogs handle stressful situations and are available in both dry and wet textures. Royal Canin Canine Calm diet is formulated to meet the nutritional needs of dogs facing stress-related digestive, skin and urinary sensitivities. Your vet will help determine if one of these diets is appropriate for your dog.

Ask an expert

If your dog has separation anxiety, don’t blame yourself and don’t try to deal with it alone. Make sure you contact your veterinarian first if you think there’s a problem. They may then refer you to an animal behaviorist who can give you extra support with specialist guidance. And remember, whichever approach you try, preventing or reducing your dog’s separation anxiety takes a lot of patience and love. So be kind to yourself as well as your dog.